Laraine Ray
Certified Positive Psychology and Positive Intelligence™ Coach
Hello, I'm Laraine! Thank you for exploring Positive Insight!
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After 40 years as a teacher, I bring the same passion for understanding, creativity, and empowerment into my work as a positive psychology coach. My goal is to help you uncover your inner wisdom and take meaningful steps toward living your best life.
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My devotion to children's well-being has inspired me to support those who nurture them. Parents and teachers often prioritize others at the expense of their own well-being. True self-care goes beyond pampering—it's about reconnecting with yourself so you can handle life’s challenges and inspire others to thrive.
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Every person has the power to create a life of happiness and ease. I’ll help you quiet external noise, draw on your strengths, and align with your values—your compass to a fulfilling life. Whether you know where you're headed or are just starting, I’ll meet you where you are, ask questions to spark insights, and cheer you on through successes and "FAILS" (First Attempts at Learning).
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Helping people achieve their aspirations has been my lifelong mission. I look forward to supporting you in reaching yours—starting from the inside out!
Ongoing Learning and Mastery
Over the years, I have come to realize that mastery isn’t about perfection; it’s about growth, learning, and stepping out of our comfort zones. Each time I’ve embraced a challenge, I’ve gained new insights and supported others in meaningful ways.
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Some of the steps I’m most proud of include:
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A 16-year teaching career at The Nueva School, an internationally recognized institution for gifted students and innovative education.
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Creating and leading parent education programs to support families, particularly those navigating the unique journey of raising gifted children.
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Presenting at esteemed conferences on giftedness, curriculum design, and fostering a growth mindset.
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Mentoring new teachers, guiding them through collaborative methods that empower them to take ownership of their learning.
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And of course, parenting—the ultimate exercise in stepping outside your comfort zone!
On a Personal Note...
On a personal note, I live on the San Francisco Peninsula with my wonderful husband, who also happens to be my high school sweetheart. We’re lucky to have two grown sons who, thankfully, still enjoy spending time with us.
Dancing is my happy place—it’s where I feel most free and alive. Creativity fuels me, and I find my best self when I’m creating, whether it’s through my work or daily life.
I’m also a recovering perfectionist. Over time, I’ve learned an important lesson: there’s a difference between striving for mastery and knowing when to say, “This is good enough.”
Each day, I try to live by my motto: “Lean in with curiosity and leave worries and what-ifs behind.”
